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My frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions...

What kink activities are your absolute favourite?

Honestly, I am an all round kinkster, anything that makes my heart race and makes me feel all tingly I am in! That being said my four loves are latex, corporal punishment, strap-on sex and domestic service. I have allocated pages describing each in detail, be sure to take a look.

What is your favourite thing about latex?

Latex is my love, I have a special page written all about my latex sessions, and I have also written a blog all about that special love. I even have a blog about latex care as well as my first latex catsuit, make sure you check them out.

Do you have an Instagram account?

No! I have had my account deleted multiple times and do not have an account. If a Mistress has contacted you on IG it is not me. A Mistress does not approach strangers asking for money, don't be fooled.

How do I go about setting up a session with you?

It's very easy. Simply go to my Contact page, fill out the form as required, and push "Submit." I will get back to you, and we will go from there.

I am completely new to seeing a Pro Domme. What should I expect?

You should expect a session that fulfils many of the fantasies you have been imagining, in a safe, sane, and consensual environment. So long as my and your limits are mutually respected, you will have a most enjoyable kinky experience.

What can I surprise you with when I come to a session?

I am regularly updating my Amazon Wishlist, so be sure to head there for ideas. Alternatively, check out my list of favourite things and send gift cards to ladyvaleskax@protonmail.com.

How should I prepare for a session with you?

  • Come ON TIME. Not late, nor early.
  • Be sure to practice good personal hygiene.
  • I generally practice clothed Domme/naked submissive during my sessions. I also prefer clients to have their genitals shaven, though this can be discussed.
  • For any anal play you must have had an enema before we meet, as I do not perform enemas. Familiarise yourself with how I conduct my pegging sessions by reading my dedicated strapon page.

Do you have any tips so that I can make a good impression?

Become very familiar with me and what I am about and offer, educate yourself. Subscribe to my membership site and buy my clips if you really want to obsess about me. Knowing what I want before I even want it, politeness and adherence to D/s protocol make me wet.

Do you have any specials or discounts?

I do! I have three different specials you can enjoy. One is a vac bed special, next is a domestic service special and the last is a foot worship special. If you want to find out the details go here. Take advantage of one or them all!

Are your services limited to those on your "Kinks & Interests" page?

Not at all! If you don't see what you are looking for on the "menu," all you have to do is ask, as long as you are respectful.

If it is nerve-wracking and stressful before our session together, do you mind if I have alcohol beforehand?

Yes, I mind very much. I need you to be fully attentive to me, to be very responsive to my directions. I don't want your awareness dulled by any intoxicating substance. If you are under the influence, the session will be ended immediately, and you will be asked to leave.

That being said, I am completely fine with administering aromas during our session, however this will be done under my direction.

Is it possible to have a session with you and another Mistress, or with a Master?

Not only is it possible, but I adore these kinds of sessions. Simply state your interest in your application email. Naturally, the rates for joint sessions will be higher.

Although I am very curious about impact play and things like nipple play and CBT, I'm worried about going too far and getting hurt. What safeguards are there?

My approach to sessions is to always be safe, sane, and consensual. While I am very fluent is reading your body, communication is also extremely important. If you are feeling it's getting to be too much, simply say "yellow," and I will moderate and check in with you. If you feel that an activity is something you can't or do not want to handle, just say "red," and I will immediately stop.

Are there limits to what you are willing to do?

Oh yes! While the nature of a session is always intensely sensual, I do not and will not provide ANY sexual services. This is a hard limit. I also don't participate in hard sports. Equally, you must let me know in advance if there are any hard limits for you. Remember, a session should be a mutually pleasurable and fulfilling experience for both of us.

If I can't come to see you in person, are there other ways I can serve you?

Certainly! I train and play with submissives by phone, text, email or via Skype. I have a dedicated Online Dominatrix page that outlines all the possibilities of how you can serve your Mistress from afar.

And of course I can come to you for the most indulgent experience.

Do you have clips I can purchase?

Yes! I have clips for sale on iwantclips and Clips4sale. Or you may order a custom clip through me privately at ladyvaleskax@protonmail.com or on iwantclips. Also, you can join my exclusive membership sites OnlyFans or LoyalFans.

Find out all the information on my dedicated Online Dominatrix page.

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